deps: upgrade deck to v1.10.0, update the affected deck calls in sendconfig

[mflendrich]

This PR:

• fixes Upgrade Deck to v1.8.x or newer #1824: bumps deck to v1.10.0
• (functional change) passes selectTags to file.Get as introduced in fix(sync) apply --select-tag to new entities deck#517, so that only the tagged entities get pulled from Admin API
• (updates past a breaking API change in decK, apparently no functional impact) updates the Solve() call to use the new API introduced in Refactor/consolidate event gen deck#436

@rainest please kindly double-check that the use of selectTags when reading the target state is as intended after #517.

[github-actions]

Licenses differ between commit f35eada and base:

+++ pr_licenses.csv	2022-01-03 23:17:52.659642296 +0000
@@ -58,6 +58,7 @@
 github.com/sirupsen/logrus,https:/sirupsen/logrus/blob/master/LICENSE,MIT
 github.com/spf13/cobra,https:/spf13/cobra/blob/master/LICENSE.txt,Apache-2.0
 github.com/spf13/pflag,https:/spf13/pflag/blob/master/LICENSE,BSD-3-Clause
+github.com/ssgelm/cookiejarparser,https:/ssgelm/cookiejarparser/blob/master/LICENSE.md,MIT
 github.com/tidwall/gjson,https:/tidwall/gjson/blob/master/LICENSE,MIT
 github.com/tidwall/match,https:/tidwall/match/blob/master/LICENSE,MIT
 github.com/tidwall/pretty,https:/tidwall/pretty/blob/master/LICENSE,MIT```

[rainest]

We were already getting tags via other means, which is equivalent to including tags inside the target content file. That was already supported in deck; the 1.8 change just adds additional handling for the CLI argument also; including it in the file.Get() call just confirms that the file and argument tags don't differ.

That won't ever occur here (we use the controller tag arg for both), so we're good to go. Were there any issue introduced by the change, integration tests would fall over because the controller wouldn't be able to see its own resources.