use goderive to generate deepcopy code

[ndeloof]

This replaces copystructyre (based on reflection) with deepcopy code generated by goderive

compose project loading pipeline being a mess, we mutate the project in a few places and need a full copy of it. This has terrible impact when it comes to large compose project:

$ docker compose version
Docker Compose version v2.27.1

$ time docker compose ps nginx23
NAME             IMAGE          COMMAND                  SERVICE   CREATED       STATUS                PORTS
toti-nginx23-1   nginx:1.22.1   "/docker-entrypoint.…"   nginx23   7 hours ago   Up 7 hours (Paused)   80/tcp

real	0m2.638s
user	0m3.170s
sys	0m0.149s


# With this PR
$ docker compose version
Docker Compose version v2.27.1-4-g02f40eea6.m

$ time docker compose ps nginx23
NAME             IMAGE          COMMAND                  SERVICE   CREATED       STATUS                PORTS
toti-nginx23-1   nginx:1.22.1   "/docker-entrypoint.…"   nginx23   7 hours ago   Up 7 hours (Paused)   80/tcp

real	0m0.905s
user	0m0.210s
sys	0m0.082s

I had to fork the original project so Extensions can define a custom DeepCopy method and we are not stuck my interface{} not being a supported type

fixes docker/compose#11881

[glours]

[jhrotko]

damn

[ndeloof]

I'm happy I didn't had to write this by hand :)

[jhrotko]

LGTM