v1.14 release status

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kmsg proto bumps:

• KIP-405 proto KIP-405 proto / kerr bumps #485
• KIP-903 proto KIP-903 proto #484

kgo:

• bump pinned kmsg
• DialTLS kgo: add DialTLS option #483
• NodeName, Opts Add NodeName, Opts #495
• Add kraft detection to kversion kversion: detect 3.5 and kraft #497
• KeepRetryableFetchErrors add option to return error on non exiting topic for ConsumeTopics opt  #439
• Optional SASL Validate interface Add validation for sasl.username and sasl.password #472
• AddConsumePartitions Question - "dynamic subscriptions" for direct consumer #475
• Tolerate buggy group member metadata Tolerate misbehaving 3rd party kafka clients with wrong member metadata #493
• Make dial timeouts retryable
• Add info to opportunistic load during source backoff -- say why
• Add debug logging when stripping partitions when fetching
• Add getters to Offset (return EpochOffset)
• Allow mixing OnBrokerRead && OnBrokerWrite
• Avoid returning partitions after pause question: clarify Poll behavior #489

Deferred:

• Per-partition consumer helper?